The Significance of Year-End Reviews
12/18/2023As the year comes to a close, social media becomes adorned with posts summarizing the past 365 days. For some, it's merely a trend to follow; for others, it's a moment of reflection and a chance to express gratitude to oneself and the surrounding world. It's also an opportunity to contemplate unfulfilled aspirations.
The primary purpose of year-end summaries is personal satisfaction, an evaluation of oneself throughout the passing year. The key questions: What did I feel, and what experiences shaped me? How did specific events influence my journey?
Reflecting on the year implies progression with no option to turn back. Don’t approach your year-end reflections as a competition and avoid comparisons to others. Remember, the neighbor's grass may seem greener simply because it's artificial. In this process, your honesty is paramount.
The ability to firmly answer the question, "Did I do the right thing?" without self-condemnation reflects maturity and mental resilience.
If you claim to have acted correctly, you take responsibility for your actions and the moral principles guiding them.
If you admit a mistake, it signifies acknowledging the inadequacy of your choice and accepting responsibility for rectifying and restoring what went wrong.
Thus, the year-end review serves as a punctuation mark, defining your perception of yourself within the context of life events. This understanding is crucial because many unconsciously navigate life, motivated by the ephemeral prospect of going back and making amends. There is no checkpoint allowing you to rewind and start anew. However, there exists an opportunity to retrospectively comprehend life and gain experience.
The year-end summary essentially asks: Look at where you are. Do you like it? Reflect on why things happened this way and ask yourself what you want in the future. Who you are now and where you are in life — it’s the consequence of your decisions, and the acceptance or rejection of the responsibility for those decisions.